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Oct 11, 20232 min read
Embracing Resistance
'Whatever is preventing you from writing the poem, is the poem.' Years ago, I hurt my arm and ended up with a ‘frozen’ shoulder. There...
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Aug 23, 20232 min read
I Don't Matter!
Last week I received an email from a work colleague that set me off. It was rude and condescending. I found it totally offensive. And I...
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May 12, 20232 min read
When I am distracted ...
I sat for meditation – my daily practice – and almost immediately jumped up again. I couldn’t focus and, seeking distraction, I grabbed a...
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Apr 6, 20232 min read
Softening the Darkness
It had happened before. It was happening again. It felt like my whole being had shut down. I could take care of the small mundane tasks:...
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Feb 6, 20231 min read
Is it a circle or a spiral?
How do you view your experience? Especially when you come up against an emotional challenge that you thought you had already worked...
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Nov 10, 20223 min read
Fierce Self-Compassion - Standing firm while keeping your heart tender
When we think of compassion, qualities such as kindness, tenderness and nurturing are likely to come to mind. Another form of compassion...
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May 11, 20221 min read
Herding Cats
I was agitated. Very busy doing nothing, except distracting myself from what I need to do. What I wanted to do. I was consumed in a...
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Oct 3, 20219 min read
Resolving Trauma: Somatic and Homeopathic Approaches
My mother trained in social work during the 1940’s. I recall being shocked when she told me, with great authority and conviction, that...
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Aug 10, 20212 min read
Self-Compassion In Real Life
This morning I was visited again by those dark feelings that lurk in some recess of my being: 'I am worthless, I am nothing.' This...
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May 25, 20213 min read
My Secret Superpower – Softness
Sometimes I surprise myself. In a good way. Those occasions when, put on the spot, my response has been inspired. I am impressed. Back in...
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Mar 21, 20212 min read
The Inner Weather Map - Bringing Balance to My Meditation Practice
When I sit for meditation, the first thing I do is to scan inside, assessing the inner weather map: - Is there physical pressure...
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Feb 22, 20212 min read
Dismantling the Emotional Impacts of Trauma Brick by Brick
It is said you can only heal what you can feel. Then how to breach a lifetime’s defence against experience that had been too painful to...
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Feb 27, 20193 min read
The Qualities of Self Compassion
A few years ago, while driving into the city, I realised was in the wrong lane; I was heading in the wrong direction. The words: ‘You...
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Sep 22, 20183 min read
Mindful Self-Compassion - Healing Through the Heart
Five years ago I took part in a course called Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC). It a was powerful and enriching experience. I gained...
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